Monthly Bad Intentions Munch

YOU MUST FULLY REGISTER TO RECEIVE THE DIRECT ADDRESS TO THE LOCATION. THE LOCATION WILL BE PROVIDED IN YOUR REGISTRATION CONFIRMATION.

Time: 2 pm to 5 pm
Where: A vanilla, public, no-pressure hangout
Who: Hosted by @MissMelodyPond, @Princess_Nina and @Goddess_Colette

Why?

We have made significant improvements to our vetting system to ensure a smoother experience and establish a safer environment within the FemDom community. Our parties are exclusively for individuals who have been vetted by the hosts of @SDBADINTENTIONS, prioritizing the safety and privacy of everyone involved. We also take pleasure in participating in both FemDom and non-FemDom events.

Vetting process

These steps can be completed in any order!

Munch attendance: Attending at least one munch is required to complete vetting. Munches take place on the second Sunday of every month unless stated otherwise. They are a great chance to meet fellow community members, get to know the organizers, and make connections in our community.

Virtual orientation: Attending at least one virtual orientation is also required. We post the orientation schedule on the events calendar. Orientations cover the rules, guidelines, and community expectations.

Our location changes from time to time. The current address is in your registration confirmation email.

Quick reminders

• Vanilla venue: no kink gear, no play. Keep it casual and respectful.
• Bring your ID: this is a 21 and up venue.
• Support the venue: please grab a drink and/or food.
• Discretion matters: keep kink talk to the patio, and keep outfits fashion-friendly and vanilla-passing. Collars are fine if they read as goth/alt style, and dark clothing is always welcome.

SDBI munch etiquette

A munch is a vanilla social meetup at a bar or restaurant. It is not a play party and not a meat market. Come to socialize and make friends.

• Dress vanilla-passing. No obvious fetish gear. If unsure, business casual works.
• Consent is the standard. Do not touch anyone (or their things) without permission, including hugs.
• Discretion matters. Photos are discouraged; don't take pictures of the group. Step away if you need a selfie and keep others out of frame.
• Names. Only call people what they go by in the community. If you know someone's real name, use their scene name.
• No titles or role assumptions. Don't use "Master/Mistress/Sir/Slave," etc. unless you have an actual relationship and they asked for it. Be mindful of bar staff.
• Don't assume gender. If unsure, ask pronouns. If you mess up, apologize, correct it, and move on.
• Pay your tab before you leave, and please support the venue with a drink or food.
• Do not out the group. If anyone asks, we're a book club.

Need help finding us?

Ask for the "Dune Book Club," check the Discord munch chat, or text Nina at (619) 537-9726.

Can't wait to see you. Come say hi, meet some great people, and enjoy the afternoon.

Warmly,
The SDBI Team