BLACK ORCHID · SD BAD INTENTIONS

How to Apply

Join our vetted, consent-first community. Every membership is reviewed and approved by our team.

1. Create your account

Enter your email, then choose a screen name that does not reveal your identity. Only our staff ever see your real name.

2. Answer the application questions

Your legal name as it appears on your ID (staff only), how you found us or who referred you, your power orientation, which vetting steps you have completed, and which membership you are applying for.

3. Add a profile photo

At least one clear photo of you, or of all partners if you are applying as a couple or throuple. Blurs or stickers over faces are fine. No memes, graphics, AI images or screenshots, and no other people, pets or children.

4. Age

Classes are 18+. SD Bad Intentions events and memberships are 21+. ID is checked at events.

5. Complete vetting

Black Orchid: one virtual orientation.

SD Bad Intentions: one virtual orientation and one in-person munch or class, where we check ID.

Current SD Bad Intentions and YBK members are eligible for full Black Orchid membership. Steps can be done in any order.

Acceptance

Once approved, you will be notified by email and can purchase your membership. Black Orchid and SD Bad Intentions reserve the right to choose and maintain our member base.

Our first rules are consent, discretion and respect for every member. Questions? Email SDFemdompp@protonmail.com.